Published in Equality Includes You·PinnedMember-only“You ain’t a real Mexican” or …Why Being Born a Half-Polish-Half-Mexican in 1960’s Detroit is some serious shit, man! — Being raised in a mainly Mexican neighborhood with a dark brown Dad and a very white Mom makes for some good neighborhood gossip or at least contributes to some widespread cultural confusion among the locals. Everyone wants to be the one who figures you out, right? Like they cracked the…Human Beings Are Cool3 min readHuman Beings Are Cool3 min read
Published in Hello, Love·PinnedMember-onlyReconciling Love & Hate: A ConundrumBackyard bliss : Uncle Roque and Mr. Chicken — Abuse Survivors2 min readAbuse Survivors2 min readUncle Roque with his pet chickenReconciling Love & Hate: A ConundrumBackyard bliss : Uncle Roque and Mr. Chicken----
PinnedMember-onlyBowtie & Bangs: How to be a Catholic Cutie on your Baptism Day!I was baptized in Kindergarten at St. Gabriel’s church on West Vernor Highway in Detroit. I remember how cool I felt with my hair slicked back with Brylcreem, standing tall in my ironed white shirt, tucked deep into my single-pleated black slacks — and Sunday socks, too. To complete the…Good Friday4 min readGood Friday4 min read
Published in Hello, Love·PinnedMember-onlyWhispered Confession: Dad’s Last DayI see my dad in front of me, the hospital bed envelops his body, crisp white linens tucked up to his chest, his arms out to his sides, resting on the sheets, palms up. Eyes closed, his mouth shaping an unnatural “O” around the tube pushing air into his lungs…Fathers Day3 min readFathers Day3 min read
Published in Hello, Love·PinnedWhispered Confession: Dad’s Last DayI see my dad in front of me, the hospital bed envelops his body, crisp white linens tucked up to his chest, his arms out to his sides, resting on the sheets, palms up. Eyes closed, his mouth shaping an unnatural “O” around the tube pushing air into his lungs…Grieving3 min readGrieving3 min read
2 days agoMember-onlyThe Power of These Three Words: I MISS YOUThe Power of These Three Words: I MISS YOU Chapter One: Making Space for Your Grief The tasting, the telling of yesterday’s loss is what woke me from a deep sleep last night. Startled, I sat up in bed, seeing Dad’s face, hearing Dad’s lips shape: “I miss you.” This…Grief And Loss3 min readGrief And Loss3 min read
Published in Hello, Love·6 days agoMember-onlyWanda and Ginger, The Polka Twins , Save the Day!Wanda’s Wonderful Polka Party ! — Picture this: Summer of 1966, Warren , Michigan. My Great Aunt Wanda Hazinski tightens the knot on her babushka and picks up the phone. “It’s time,” she says to herself, looking in the hallway mirror and tucking the ends of the babushka into her sculpted , Aqua Net hair.Polka2 min readPolka2 min read
Published in Change Becomes You·Jan 16Member-onlyMy Car Catharsis: One Fuzzy French Fry and A Lost Leather BraceletChapter 1: Selling & saying goodbye to your beloved car is a process. — It’s true. I’m a car slob and provide no apologies for it. I came to this sad realization as I plugged my Sears Kenmore 4.8 vacuum into the garage outlet, snapped in the attachment and pushed the button. I had to assume a weird body-placement position in order to access…Healthy Masculinity5 min readHealthy Masculinity5 min read
Published in Co-existence·Jan 9Member-onlyWriting as Sacred Liberation… Gio Evan, a modern-day Italian writer and poet, is adamant in his belief that poetry cannot save lives. Of course, I disagree with him whole-heartedly. (How else can I explain my current-day life and longings?!) But , we need to hear him out. Gio suggests that poetry allows you…Writing Life4 min readWriting Life4 min read
Published in Co-existence·Jan 5Member-onlyThe Things You Left Behind(A night of Smoke , Fire and Fumes ) — There was an odd quiet that night. Mom was napping. I was playing with my Old Maid cards on the floor by the couch and my oldest brother, Roy, was setting up his militia men on the coffee table, preparing for war. The plastic toy soldiers slid down the radiator…Childhood Trauma1 min readChildhood Trauma1 min readThe Things You Left Behind(A night of Smoke , Fire and Fumes )There was an odd quiet that night.Mom was napping. I was playing with my Old Maid cards on the floor by the couch and my oldest brother, Roy, was setting up his militia men on the coffee table, preparing for war.The plastic toy soldiers slid down the radiator…----